The sophisticated woman usually is sophisticated for one of two reasons. She is either sophisticated because it was her whole family upbringing and cultural orientation, or she is sophisticated because she was once insecure (not knowing where she belonged). She then tried for what she considered the highest strata, and made it.If she is the first, the only way to ever win her is to have been brought up in the same kind of atmosphere as she has, or to have become so popular (great author, school