Nobody needs love more and gets it less than the unattractive woman. The ironic thing is that no woman is more difficult to "hustle." The first reason is that she doesn’t believe a man when he makes a play for her. The second reason is that, even if she did, she doesn’t know how to react to a man because she hasn’t had much experience in playing the game of romance.The attractive woman will set you up for the next thing to say by her positive response to what went before.The not-so-beautiful woman very seldom learns, as does the plain woman, to use her weaknesses as the driving force to compensate in some other area. She seldom lets the emotion of rejection spur her onward. The tragic thing is that not only is the homely woman not good-looking, but she too willingly accepts her lack of looks as the judgment of her worth. She has no spirit.If she did, she wouldn’t really be unattractive. No woman with spirit can be.The biggest thing to remember in your dealings with the unattractive woman is not to give her the impression that you personally have a romantic interest in her, unless you do. If you do, then remember that the key to keeping her is having patience and helping her to be the most attractive woman she can be, without making her painfully aware of what she never will achieve. If there is no romantic interest, make it clear, but concern yourself with her welfare anyway. Perhaps, if you reached back into the genetic grab bag, you wouldn’t fare so well a second time and she would need to be kind to you.

Originally posted from Relationships – The Less-Than-Beautiful Woman

She would he the moral woman whom the moral man loses by trying to exhibit character qualities except that because she is so popular, he puts her up on a pedestal.There is no doubt that the moral man and the popular woman are going to be at least good friends since their common bond is morality. Romance is the problem.Friendship is the first prerequisite, however. You can always "add romance to friendship much more easily than you can add friendship to a romance."Don’t kid yourself for a moment, however, that the popular girl isn’t going to be very selective as to who will take her out. Morality will be her prerequisite, and social attractiveness, the deciding factor.It is simply the law of life that each woman bargains for the most she can get, with what she thinks she has, moral, immoral, or amoral. She wants the man whom society holds in the highest esteem, and she chooses that man from among the moral men who approach her. After all, you picked her because she was moral and popular.It takes a kind of calculated spontaneity to win her. The popular but genuine woman is perhaps the most difficult woman to desire and win by understanding certain specific needs and fulfilling them. The reason is that other women are organized around some one basic need that must be fulfilled no matter what else you leave undone. This is not true of the genuine but popular woman. She is not an insecure woman, and she is not won by focusing on one need or cluster of needs. There isn’t any one need that towers above the others except the need for love.If she is won, it will probably be because you are the best well-rounded individual with a moral commitment who is available when she needs someone to love her.The popular but genuine woman is quite naive, but she is still no fool. If she is consciously aware you are making a manipulative play for her, you are not necessarily finished, but you are in deep water. She doesn’t like being used. Since she didn’t plot to get where she is, she doesn’t trust people who feel they have to.

Originally posted from Relationship – The Popular But Genuine Woman

You may rest assured that if the "not-so-smart" woman is good-looking, she will usually be shallow. The "not-so-smart" woman who is not good-looking may be quite deep. Depth is too often associated with intelligence. Depth is a function of the emotional capacity to be sensitive to one’s own feelings or the feelings of others.If she is good-looking, don’t think that it really bothers her that she isn’t considered intelligent. It doesn’t. What sometimes does get to her, however, is that being "not-so-smart," she gets taken advantage of by men. If she is loved and feels secure, being told she needs guidance only adds to her feelings of femininity.The two biggest factors to winning a "not-so-smart" woman are love and discipline. It’s something like raising children. There is no way to get around the fact that your own superiority will be your downfall. There is no way for the genius of Einstein to compensate to a child for a playmate that deals with life on the same playful level. You must fit into her world, because she doesn’t know any higher world really exists.

Originally posted from The Not-So-Smart Woman

There is some one thing at the crux of every man or woman’s life from which all else springs. In the same sense that the laws of relativity can be deduced from the simple mathematical expression E=MC2, so can all the intricate and complex mysteries of a woman’s soul be deduced from her need to be loved. That doesn’t mean that there are not a hundred things which no one knows about women. But when and if they are discovered, it will be found that they fit harmoniously with that which is already known and can be deduced from the premise.Men live for respect and women live for love. That is the first great key to understanding any woman. Love is at the heart and core of everything she does. She lives to be loved and to give love, and when something or someone destroys that inside her, she has a tendency to want to destroy it and all others, so paramount is that need.On the other hand, what a man wants is to be respected. Now it becomes obvious that he has the need to be loved as well, but respect is primary and love secondary. He seeks the second only after he has fulfilled the first and is only happy when he has both, in that order.A man wants to be loved, but only from within the context of being respected. And one soon learns that a woman wants to be respected, but only from within the context of being loved. In other words, if you respect a man for what he can do, then he wants you to love him for what he is. If you love a woman for what she is, then she wants you to respect her for what she can do.Specifically, this means that when men and women play mixed doubles in tennis together, the men are primarily interested in winning, and secondarily, they hope that everyone will have a good time. Women, on the other hand, want everyone to enjoy the game, and winning is only secondary. Men live for accomplishment but women prefer pleasantry.There is no rightness or wrongness involved in the matter. Each sees life from within the context of his or her greatest need. It has nothing to do with one being logical and the other illogical. It simply is the way things are.I’m not for a moment going to pretend that some men don’t just want to have fun and some women don’t possess the killer instinct. But a man who plays just for fun doesn’t need any more respect since his need for it has already been filled in some way, or else he is so afraid of failing that he rationalizes away his need to protect his ego.On the other hand, a woman who is determined to win has in some way been rejected as a woman and is compensating for it by saying, "If you won’t love me as a woman, at least I’ll make you respect me as a person."The only times women are extremely aggressive and possess the "killer instinct," most of the time, are when they are competitively seeking the love of a man, or are seeking to protect a child. This competition is fairly frequent in regard to winning men, and this is why women often don’t like each other.

Originally posted from Women Live For Love

The first thing you have to learn about "hustling" religious women is that you don’t win them by being religious for the same reason that she doesn’t fall romantically in love with her priest, minister, or bishop. That does not mean that you won’t have to be religious (once you have won her) to keep her, because you probably will.You have to understand the relationship of the religious woman with the wild woman. The religious woman does not necessarily want to be wild, but she envies the excitement experienced by the wild woman. That is the key to what is really going on in her mind. The wild woman, on the other hand, envies the stability of the religious woman.The siren portion of her personality lies dormant inside the religious woman aching to get out. I don’t mean that she is willing to become either a hypocrite or to renounce her religion for someone who will teach her of the "world." Occasionally yes, but usually not.She wants to be a wholesome siren within the context of what her morality will allow. She needs acceptance and a man’s encouragement in order to avoid being caught in the web of carrying her belief in "avoiding the appearance of evil" to an extreme, as she is apt to do. She has no desire for "evil," but this business of avoiding the appearance of evil hangs very heavily over her head. There are many things that her heart tells her are right, but she is afraid of what people will think.The religious woman tends to live in a constant dread of offending someone. There is a great tendency for her to live her life in terms of other people’s expectations for her. Unless she has internalized her value system before you meet her, she overly admires the strong, self-sufficient people who do what they want when they want to, regardless of what other people think.The man who wins her will fill certain requirements. He must play off a certain willingness to draw out the siren in her against the backdrop of at least a basic goodness. He will joke and tease, cajole and wheedle her about how sexy, worldly, forward and seductive she is. He will tell her a whole host of things that she can deliciously deny. She will deny them at first, because even though she knows that he is jesting, she thinks that there must be a grain of truth in what he tells her. He must not let her think that he believes her denials for a single moment.

Originally posted from Different Kinds of Women – The Religious Woman

There is a crucial timing differential between the moment a man is first attracted to a woman and the time when she becomes interested in him. This is the normal state of affairs.Occasionally, however, the timing of a woman’s interest may run at about the same speed as her interested pursuer, or even faster. That is possible, but not probable. When this does happen, a man attributes his success to his greatness, when in reality he is just in the basic price range and available. If he has greatness, it is in learning how to know when the right time is approaching and to be there often by skill instead of occasionally by luck.That reminds me of a short story I once read that illustrates the concept of differential timing quite well. A rather average young man on duty in a Southeast Asian country agrees to take mind-reading lessons from an Asiatic sage. He starts out casually, but before long he is making great progress. He soon discovers that he can read women’s minds. He senses when they are feeling insecure. What started out as an academic pursuit turns into a preoccupation. He learns that his sixth sense will tell him just when a woman needs the security of being loved and then he can step in with confidence to set the stage for winning her.The concept of mind reading illustrates what the normal man has to try to do in regard to timing; but of course, unless he does read minds he won’t function with quite as much efficiency.As we’ve said, the timing is crucial. There is yet another punch line, however, to the heavy emphasis that is being put on timing. "Yes, that is true if you are there waiting with the face of a Greek god, a wallet full of money, and an expensive sports car." This comment overstates the case, but it still makes it plain that the timing is of value only if you are in her basic price range.A man knows which women interest him five seconds after he enters a room. He takes one look at a woman, and, if he likes what he sees, he concludes he is interested enough to see if she has character and compassion, is "good" and good for something too. This all takes time, but at least he knows in a few seconds whether or not he is willing to pursue her to see if she has these other qualities.Since she isn’t attracted to men by sight and she is concerned even more than he is with character, compassion, sensitivity, and goodness, it obviously will take her considerably more time to make up her mind. Remember that women marry chiefly for security.A man expects a woman to make some kind of decision concerning him too soon. He wants her to make a decision shortly after he does. When she doesn’t show great reciprocal interest, it is not that she has weighed him carefully in the balance and has found him lacking. She is still unaware that he really wants her to give him a hearing. He hasn’t been rejected. He usually hasn’t even yet been seriously considered.That is not a play on words, because if he does do something to get himself considered, there is an excellent chance that, if he makes his play when the relationship is deep enough for her to consider his worth, she will desire him.A man loses when he tries to get "too deep, too soon" in his relationship with a woman. This is true of both an emotional commitment and sex. The shallow man is tempted to try for sex and the moral man to get a promise of emotional commitment. Most men lack patience.

Originally posted from Man’s Guide of Romance – The Timing Differential

Fashion photographers make small fortunes by knowing how to get a certain look from a woman. You can look into any of the major fashion magazines and there it will be. She may be holding onto a man’s sleeve, sizing up last year’s wardrobe, or gallantly trying to hide behind this season’s outrageous new fashion.Next year the styles may be different, but that same look in a new style of clothes will be looking deeply into your eyes from her ever-changing background. The look itself never fundamentally changes.The American woman, for instance, has been very good at playing opposites against each other ever since the advent of the hippie movement in the 1960s and now into the twenty-first century. Hippie women for example, learned to play off this kind of disinterested look against their long, straight, feminine hair, parted in the middle, falling to the middle of their backs. The contrast was tantalizing.What is the look? The look says this, "I am consciously aware of being a woman. I have all the charms that a woman needs to satisfy a man. I know that you want me, and you can have me, but only on the condition that you do absolutely everything necessary to win me."The attraction of the long-haired hippie woman is the contrast between the independent self-aware look in her eyes (which to a man appears as unattainable ness) and the long, straight hair to the middle of her back, which says, "I’m very feminine and fragile, and I need someone to protect me from the vicissitudes of life."This is the crux of the woman’s seductive charm. The height of that charm is expressed in her independent eyes, and then played off against the need to be taken care of. It just drives men to distraction.

Originally posted from The Look Women Have

Men do not charm by being good looking, but by a certain kind of look. That look is an intrinsic part of a man’s charm. It is an essential part of a man’s personality in the same way that the good use of the English language is a prerequisite to a woman’s attractiveness.A man is not charmed initially by a woman’s words, but words within the context of looks are important. If she doesn’t have the content to back up her looks, he eventually loses interest.Men, on the other hand, need to have the "look" as a way of backing up their words.The look a man must have is the natural counterpart to the woman’s look. A man says something with his eyes. It is usually locked in insight, but the basics of it, like a woman’s look, can be expressed with words.A man says, "I am consciously aware of being a man. I have all the charms necessary to satisfy a woman, and I know I can charm any woman I want. I also realize that this will be so only on the condition that I do absolutely everything necessary to treat her needs with respect."Women are wary of arrogance, but they love confidence. Arrogance says "I can have you even if I don’t do things correctly"; confidence says, "I can have you because I’m going to do everything just right."Women are attracted primarily by words, but the words are occasionally preceded by the look (not looks). Every once in a great while a woman will come across a man she has never seen before who will look into her eyes and seem to possess her soul in some mysterious way.Most men when they get caught looking at a beautiful woman, turn away as if they hadn’t been looking. That’s foolish. When you get caught, just keep looking, but smile as if, "Well, I guess we both know how attractive I think you are." She’ll smile back, and you’ll know that she knows that you know what you’re doing.I Know More Than I’m TellingThree-quarters of the battle to win a woman is getting her attention long enough so that she will pass judgment on you. Many a man thinks he has been rejected when in reality he hasn’t even been considered.When a man hasn’t considered a woman, she has been rejected; but when a woman hasn’t considered a man, he needs to get her attention.He has to do some dramatic thing to gain her interest. Then he has to do something with the interest thus gained to intrigue her. He must do something to get her thinking about him.A man must have a look in his eye that says he knows more than he is telling. No matter what he says, it must appear that it is just the beginning of what could be said, even if he has said just about all there is to say.FacesThere is an aura to success. It isn’t the kind of thing that most people can put their finger on. They just sense it in the same way they can tell another person’s approximate age, but would be lost if someone pressed them for an explanation. This attraction comes from sight, but more than sight is involved. As the hippies used to say, "I get good vibrations from him."At least through the eyes, one catches the essence of all the other’s (man’s or woman’s) past experiences culminated in his or her present physical appearance. This is so, because as any physiologist can tell you who has made the muscular system of the body his area of study, the appearance of the face will be transformed by the movement that the muscles make as a consequence of one’s predominate emotions.Over time what is a malleable face becomes grooved in some way by the muscle movements that have predominated in that person’s life. For instance, confidence or the lack of it is written into the corners of the mouth. A critical nature is written into the knitted brow. Happiness is written in the lines that trail outward from the corners of the eyes. Those lines are the natural result of smiling. The look" is every thought painting pictures on your face. Your own confidence or lack of it is written on your face.

Originally posted from Relationships – The Look Men Have

The sophisticated woman usually is sophisticated for one of two reasons. She is either sophisticated because it was her whole family upbringing and cultural orientation, or she is sophisticated because she was once insecure (not knowing where she belonged). She then tried for what she considered the highest strata, and made it.If she is the first, the only way to ever win her is to have been brought up in the same kind of atmosphere as she has, or to have become so popular (great author, school president, leading athlete, etc.) that you consider yourself her social equal. Technique or style just won’t do it.There is a saying that goes, never marry the woman you would marry if you were a better man; you will hate her for her superiority in trying to make you into an equal.For the other kind of sophisticated woman, give her lots of compliments and occasionally call her bluff. There will be no end of interesting dialogue. Though you may win her, you might not know what to do with her.

Originally posted from Relationships – The Sophisticated Woman

What so often passes for lack of interest on the part of a woman is really a put-on act of indifference. The difference is that a lack of interest springs from the sincerity of her heart, but the air of indifference is a way of protecting herself from getting involved and then being hurt. It takes time to learn to trust.A woman needs the reassurance that you love her and will retain an interest in her welfare over and above your personal desire for her.If there were ever an area in which the moral man ought to excel, it is in his ability to assure a woman that he is there to reassure her.As with all abilities one has in which one is completely secure, a tendency exists to take that quality for granted. A moral man who knows that he is always going to be there to take care of a woman tends to assume that she also knows that this is so. She still needs to be told.Since men do the asking and women do the accepting, a woman may have a long history of being asked out by men she thinks want her, only to be dropped after what she thought was a good date. Men are more apt to get hurt in the beginning while women are more apt to get hurt at the end.Getting hurt at the end is the far more painful thing. Initially, a woman holds all the cards. The man commits himself by asking and she hasn’t said a great deal by accepting. Over a period of time the relationship shifts to his advantage because after each date she has no idea when or whether he is going to call again. That is a constant source of worry to her.A woman lives for love and security. She is charmed by words, and the words she loves most are the sacred words: "I love you." When deeds are all finished and done, his words of reassuring love dwell and dance in the air of her recollection.A man errs in assuming that she knows he loves her. Love is not enough, the reassurance of that love must accompany it. A woman will do almost anything for a man who appreciates her. A woman needs to be told three times a day, just on general principles if for no other reason, that she is loved.There are two ways of reassuring a woman. The first is direct, with words; the second way is indirect, with deeds. Words are superior (as difficult as that may be for a man to understand), and the concrete action like taking coats, opening doors, etc., are very important but secondary.

Originally posted from Women Need Reassurance From Men

Let’s start with a simple statement. "All women are the same, and each woman is different." The problem for a man is to comprehend this paradox. A man must understand that there is something that all women have in common, which we will call womanliness, something that makes them different from men in their manliness.A man can learn to see the universal in the particular. Although there are a thousand unique shades and hues of the color red in the spectrum, each possesses similar properties which are recognizable as redness.Sometimes what seems obvious to someone trained to think in philosophical terms is a very difficult concept for the average person to understand. As soon as you try to express the idea that all women are alike, people immediately rush to the defense of each woman with her uniqueness. If you discuss the uniqueness of a particular woman (or of all women), someone will say, "Ah, they’re all alike. If you’ve talked to one, you’ve talked to them all."Since one’s success in any given field comes from an intimate understanding of the nature of the subject matter being studied, one’s success in romance is going to come from an intimate understanding of women in general. And of how that understanding will give him the key to understanding any one woman in particular.Perhaps a better understanding of the concept that all women (psychologically) are the same and each woman, personally, is different might be expressed by an analogy to the construction of their physical bodies.For instance, all women are the same inasmuch as each one has a head, a torso, two arms and hands, two legs and feet. All normal human beings basically (except for genetic mutations) have these same physical properties. There are short ones, fat ones, thin ones, tall ones, lean ones, but all have certain common properties regardless of the unique differences peculiar to each. No two bodies are exactly alike, but all are similar.Now while women’s bodies and men’s bodies are the same in basic construction, there are enough differences within the context of that sameness to say that in certain significant ways, no matter how unique a particular woman’s body is (or a man’s) each body is not only a particular woman’s body, but it is the body of a generalized woman as well. You see "women" in a woman.What is true of a woman’s physical appearance is also true of her psychological orientation toward life. Each is a unique variation within the context of conforming to a basic pattern.All women’s bodies are the same and each woman’s body is unique. This becomes obvious when brought to a man’s attention. What he doesn’t realize is that it is just as true in the psychology of how women perceive life, and all women do perceive life differently from all men.The way a man or a woman perceives life is deeply rooted in his or her needs. All women are the same in their basic needs. Each is unique in the way in which she goes about fulfilling those needs.That is why if you can understand one woman, you can better understand all women and if you can understand all women, you can understand any one particular woman.

Originally posted from Relationships – All Women Are The Same

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