When a conflict develops between you and your mother-in-law, your husband can make it worse without meaning to. He may be so awed by his mother that he stands by and watches while she intrudes into his life. Or he is so attached to her that he refuses to risk hurting or offending her by asking her to respect the integrity of his marital relationship. As a result, it is mom who pulls all the strings. The son wants to be loyal to his wife but by being so, he feels like a traitor to his mother.If y